The Borobudur: A Psychology of Loving-kindness Carved in Stone

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Maurits G.T. Kwee

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This essay discusses the meaning of The Borobudur from a psychological perspective which unfolds while virtually and actually touring this majestic stupa-like pyramidal construction.
The Borobudur dates from about the year 800 and is located between two twin volcanoes on Java-island. Its significance is testified by the immense building itself which conveys Javanese Buddhism as
revealed by its premier interpreter: Dharmarakshita Suvarnadvipa. It is surmised that the lava-stone “Mahayana wonder” served as a ceremonial place where the Sailendra kings were crowned as
Bodhisattvas and also, as it does today, a place of pilgrimage for devotion to glorify Buddhism. Definitely, it was and still is an educational center, an “open university” , and a royal gift to the people. Ascension of The Borobudur can be instrumental in realizing an awakening in one lifetime. Ascending it up to the pinnacle is said to extinguish craving (Nirvana) and to awaken motivation (absolute bodhicitta). Descending back to the secular world (relative bodhicitta) is said to liberate from the cycle of psychological malaise (Samsara) as one learns to absorb, embody, and exude loving-kindness in mindful speech. The Gandavyuha Sutra is carved on The Borobudur’s upper reliefs and apex, exhorting pilgrims to the realization that the formless world is an “empty bubble”.
This is a practice-oriented view which goes beyond the Abhidharma philosophy in that it depicts psychology of “Relational Buddhism” wherein meaning and happiness are derived from interpersonal care in the intrapersonal balance against a backdrop of formless emptiness. These depictions accentuate the “languaging” dimension of the Body/ Speech/Mind triad of Karma, and in this sense they embrace a postmodern social constructionist vista of the Buddhist message, illuminating the emptiness of “Transcendental Truths” and elucidating “Relational-Interbeing-in-Between-Non-Selves”. The Borobudur conveys a deep and lasting relational harmony which is achievable through imbibing the interpersonal value and quality of lovingkindness. Loving-kindness itself is rendered as full of empathic compassion, sympathetic joy, and relational equanimity. This essay also highlights recent social psychological studies which corroborate some of the essences of The Borobudur’s spirit. In effect, a fact-finding field trip to The Borobudur might boil down to accomplishing “aha” uphill, emptiness at the top, and “haha” downhill, which rounds off the seeker’s quest full circle.

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Kwee, M. G. (2012). The Borobudur: A Psychology of Loving-kindness Carved in Stone. The Journal of International Association of Buddhist Universities (JIABU), 6(1), 1–28. Retrieved from https://so06.tci-thaijo.org/index.php/Jiabu/article/view/217816
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Maurits G.T. Kwee, Tilburg University, Netherlands

G.T. Maurits Kwee, Ph.D. (Em. Hon. Professor and Clinical Psychologist), Faculty
Member and Thesis Adviser of the Taos Institute (USA) – Tilburg University (Netherlands)
PhD-Program and Founder of the Institute for Relational Buddhism, Netherlands.
E: [email protected]; W: www.taosinstitute.net/maurits-gt-kwee-phd1 and www.
relationalbuddhism.org; t: @relationalbuddh; F: @Relational Buddhism. Personal note:
Born on the island of Java, I was exposed to Javanese Buddhism in my childhood through
my great-grandmother’s Samadhi, a meditation state characterized by a firm focus and
absorption. I studied it later in life and found it so intriguing that I would like to share some
of my accumulated understanding of it here. Further, I acknowledge and give a heartfelt
thanks to Ruth Tiffany Naylor for being a sparring partner toward finalizing this article.
2 If one picture is worth 10.000 words, this article cannot replace the pictorial power-point
show of c.300 slides (as e.g. presented at the 4th International Conference of Sri Lanka
Association of Buddhist Studies, December 10-12, 2010).

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