Developing Delay of Gratification in Thai Preschool Children: A Contemporary Review Toward Evidence-Based Practice

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Jesada Boonmahome
Suwimon Naraongard

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This article aims to review scholarly evidence and propose developmental approaches for delay of gratification in Thai preschool children aged 3-6 years, challenging the belief that this capacity emerges only upon entering primary school. The study employs dual methodology: systematic literature analysis in developmental psychology and early childhood education, combined with in-depth interviews with three Thai experts possessing direct teaching and research experience. Findings indicate that Thai preschool children can demonstrate delay of gratification behaviors, particularly from age 5 onward, developing earlier than documented 36 years ago. This reflects enhanced cognitive stimulation, increased parental knowledge, and improved teacher training. Effective approaches include structured play-based learning, concrete delayed-outcome activities, and helping children understand the relationship between waiting and superior benefits. A significant barrier is parents' reluctance to allow children to wait due to protective concerns. Success requires teacher-parent collaboration, preschool-to-primary continuity, and daily routine integration

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Boonmahome, J. ., & Naraongard, S. (2026). Developing Delay of Gratification in Thai Preschool Children: A Contemporary Review Toward Evidence-Based Practice. University of the Thai Chamber of Commerce Journal Humanities and Social Sciences, 46(1), 238–257. retrieved from https://so06.tci-thaijo.org/index.php/utccjournalhs/article/view/290859
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Jesada Boonmahome, Faculty of Education, Nakhon Pathom Rajabhat University

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